L-O-V-E, more like the lack of understanding of it… [yi]

{this entry is the intro to the few entries below. Read the entries in the sequence as u scroll down. DO NOT go to the other entries 1st!!! }

*intro*
wat is L-O-V-E? youngsters nowaday dunno wat love is... nope, i m not talking abt the general youngsters. i m talking abt Christian youths, youths according to the National Youth Council's definition of "youth", in which the word represents persons of the age group from 12 to 35. i m 23 this year, still very youthful, tho in this entry, i'll take the role of OldManKelTan or Ah_Peh18 (as i had always called myself since i was 18...) ;p

in the past 12 mths, i've encountered quite a wide range of love issues, particularly BGR... (i know MK is gonna grin big big when he reads this, right MK?) ;p over this one year, i've seen many get-togethers (including my own get-together with Grace), many BUs (Break-Ups, affectionately known as BUs by some of the grad Sci CFers), & also quite a number of infatuation & serious consideration of r/ships...

while i m happy for the couples God had placed together, i m grieved as well at the many pairs whom BUed this year, some of which lasted less than 6mths...in this entry, i shall attempt to touch on only the get-togethers & BUs. if u r interested to read some thots on singlehood, considerations, myb a bit bit on infatuation, i would like refer u to Josh Harris' "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" & "Boy Meets Girl"... closer to us, MK has written some thots too, so if u want to, u can click on his name on the right column on this page under "windows to lives around me". I’ll probably write abt infatuations too, but not in the near future, cos I’ll be quite busy for 3 weeks from next week onwards…